Text sex chat between boy and a girl
“My friend and I just made a bet and we want you to settle it. ” I’d just read some pick-up advice that told me to approach girls in bars with that question. They even began debating each other and trying to argue their viewpoints playfully to me.
We all do it, it’s not a big deal.” As I awaited the wrath of three women, I was surprised to hear them laughing and sharing their opinions.
Why did women suddenly respond with enthusiasm rather than distaste?
Whether it’s friends, family, religion, or media — many of us were raised to think that expressing our sexual interest (flirting) was wrong. This is especially true for many women who are afraid of being seen as “slutty” or too forward.
Instead, assume if you’ve been talking to a woman for a minimum of 15-30 minutes (at a bar or on a date), it’s safe to try leading into more enticing conversation.
From there, you can immediately roll into your sexual question to open up a discussion.
In the above story, I finally embraced my sexuality and made the topic of sex out to be fun and no big deal.
Because of that, the women felt more comfortable and confident about embracing their own sexuality.
Sometimes, you will be met with hesitation and surprise when asking a woman a more intimate question.So how do you approach the topic of sex tastefully? Stop waiting for permission to move into intimate topics.Very few women are going to lead it there or say “You can ask me about sex now!Your attitude has to convey that they’re a healthy part of building a romantic connection.I’m not expecting you walk up to random women with questions women like that. In fact, I’ve found that while that approach can work, you usually get a much stronger response and connection if you wait until later in the conversation.
” Now if you’re naturally discussing a related topic like The movie, past relationships / hookups / dates, online dating, or first kisses — then take that opportunity to move into more intimate topics.