My ex husband is dating my friend
The key to making a prudent decision here is to keep an emotional distance until you have made a conscious decision to move forward with your friend’s ex. We all want to be happy, and most of us are looking for someone with whom to live happily ever after.If you go about it the right way, many of these complicated relationships can, at the very least, be given a shot.
I was honest with him and told him I’d probably be less likely to go if I knew she would be there. I just wasn’t jumping at the chance to be around her. The question you need to ask yourself, then, is whether it’s worth it. I know men typically like to have control over situations or at least feel like we have control.Take it from a guy who has been in this tight spot a time or two—there are three things you must do before moving forward with your friend’s ex. Anyone who has had any sort of meaningful romantic relationship can tell you that—over it or not—it would be difficult for them to be around their ex.Perhaps you’re thinking to yourself, “We’re all adults here. So even if your friend is “OK” with you dating her ex, you are likely going to see a lot less of your friend.However, the one thing that seems to be the unwritten rule among us is that we would never even consider dating our friends' exes. But now I realize this rule really needs more thought, because I believe there are two factors to consider before answering my girlfriend's Facebook question.You need to weigh the value of your friendship with the woman vs.
But you do need to make sure you go about this right.